Do you wanna know the truth? If you don't, do not read this. I only know how to tell the truth.

The real reason you don't have a balanced life filled with ease and grace is because part of you doesn't feel worthy and deserving of it.

I know that sounds harsh BUT here’s the beauty in this….

You have the power to change your life. YOU and ONLY YOU.

So let's talk about where this lack of worthiness may have come from.

Maybe a story that your parents had about themselves or about you. Maybe it was a teacher or a coach or a family member. Maybe a shameful experience you had growing up that you decided you weren't worthy of happiness or the things you desire. Those stories weren't necessarily true but they served you at one point. They protected you. And now, they no longer do.

Because as you chose to embrace those stories, chaos, self-sabotage and disappointment became your normal. The struggle became what you expected and eventually it even felt comfortable. It’s...

I know, I know...wtf am I talking about, right? Hear me out.

Balance isn’t really about the scheduling and planning. While that is a very important piece of balance or what one perceives as balance,  it’s really about how you feel about yourself. Do you believe you are worthy and deserving of having a life you love? A life that is filled with ease and grace? Are you willing to honor what you really, really want - your soul's desires?

I can tell you all day long how I do life with homeschool and business and self-care and planning, yada, yada. But if you don’t believe that you actually deserve that peace and ease, then balance will forever stay….elusive. Because you will continually be hitting an upper limit. This is the point of flow and goodness that you, likely subconsciously, believe you deserve. And once you hit it or go beyond it, self-sabotage sets in. (For more info on upper limits, check out The Big Leap by Gay Hendricks.) I know you know what...